Personal side of Bias...

• What memory do you have of an incident when you experienced bias, prejudice, and/or oppression, or witnessed someone else as the target of bias, prejudice, and/or oppression? Keep in mind that one can encounter such incidents in real contexts, including online environments, as well as in fictional ones, such as movies, books, television shows, and the like.

I know that in my life I have experienced all of these things but not to the extent that I have witnessed it being done to others. I was in my classroom and it was the end of the day when parents were picking up and it was very chaotic. I was speaking with a parent who was African American about her child's day and some of the things that happen that day. At the same time I had a white parent want to speak with me as well, thinking we were all grown ups I thought that we would all be pateient and wait our turns. The white parent sent a shock of anger and complete amazement down my spine. She butted into the conversation and was very rude. When I said one moment I will be right with you, she looked at the African American woman and said," it's not like she works, she can wait until I am done, I have places to go." I honestly would have let the other woman start a physical encounter and not said a word at that point. At that point I turned my back to the white woman and finished my conversation with the other woman as tnhough nothing had happen. I then went to my administrators and spoke with them about the incident and it was settled amongst them. I was so shocked that I did not know how to react or what to do that was not out of anger.

• In what way(s) did the specific bias, prejudice and/or oppression in that incident diminish equity?

This left the African American woman feeling absolutely terrible I am sure. I know that in that incident both women lost part of their dignity. The white woman obviously thought that she had more right to speak than the other woman and that the "race" of African Americans do not work, when in fact that woman was a Doctor at the hospital she was also employed at.

• What feelings did this incident bring up for you?

This incident brought feelings of complete rage and embarassment for myself and my entire race. I was so shocked and appauled that this woman would think this thought more or less say it aloud. The rage I felt and wanted to take out on that woman was indescribable!

• What and/or who would have to change in order to turn this incident into an opportunity for greater equity?

The white woman woudl have to take a step back and not allow herself to think in such a manner that was so degrading to others. The African American woman coudl have stopped and in her very professional manner I have seen her have explained that she was a doctor and that she did work and also had things that she had to do that evening. I think this would have made the white woman feel a little more in her place of being just as equal as any other race.