Daily suuports to me would be people. without the people in my life that are close to me I would cease to exist. For example, everyday on my lunch break I call my grandma and talk for about an hour. We talk about nothing most of the time, weather, the cats, how grandpa is doing, things like that. Without her in my life as my biggest support it would be tough! Other supports are money (of course), music, this may sound strange but without music my daily chores at home would be so much more difficult to complete. Another suuport is my boyfriend, without him i woudl not have had the courage nor the idea to go back to school and work for a higher degree in the field I love. My cell phone! this is a huge support for me, without it I would have no way of communicating with my family back home. I would lose my mind if i did not get to talk with my grandma, or my little brother, or parents, or even surrvive 1800 miles across the country....have to have my cell phone!
A challange that I am anxious to face but know how difficult it will be would be planning my wedding. i have not yet heard those 4 little words, but when the day comes there will be a mountain i will need to cross and without my supports I may tumble down the hill. Again my biggest support would be my Grandma. She would be the one to keep me sane and calm through the whole thing, she would also be the monetary support. So I can see a conflict of interest happening there, but she would still support whatever I needed. My friends and their cooperation. I have found that with my other friends' weddings you find out who your true friends are when it comes down to a stressful time. i would need them in my life on a 24/7 basis. I would need support from my boyfriend in household chores and daily activities. I would need the help because yoiu know a man is not going to plan a wedding, it would be one more thing added to my plate. without his support and help both mentally and physically there may be a problem with our future....My boss would be another support I would need. I may need to rearrange my work schedule or take time off and I would need her support in doing this, and hope she woudl understand why I need what I need.
Over all without the main supports i already ahve in my life it would be pretty tough to live life to the fullest.
That is so great that you have a close relatioship with your Grandmother. I hope than when my girls grow up they rely on me as a support too.
ReplyDeletePlanning a wedding can be a huge challenge. I hope when the time comes it fufills all your dreams.
I liked how you included material items in your blog :). I couldn't live without my cell phone too!!! I really enjoyed your post!!! I'm so happy you have a supportive family like me. Family is the most important!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing :).
Tiffany,
ReplyDeleteI like what you said about your supports, and how you mentioned calling your grandma and talking for an hour about nothing much, and you go on to explain the topics. The reason why this sparks a memory in me, is because I use to call and talk to my grandma for hours and I would listen to her talk about how high grocery's were, how her $20electric bill was ridiculous because last month it was $15 dollars LOL, oh how I wish mine was $20. I miss those days, and believe you and me, she was a great constant, dependable strength in my life, and it is because of her and dedication to my mom to help raise me, I have managed to make it, even doing tuff times. Cherish your support and enjoy every minute of their time they provide, because when they are gone, life is different and some days are harder than other.