Saturday, December 10, 2011

my supports

Daily suuports to me would be people. without the people in my life that are close to me I would cease to exist. For example, everyday on my lunch break I call my grandma and talk for about an hour. We talk about nothing most of the time, weather, the cats, how grandpa is doing, things like that. Without her in my life as my biggest support it would be tough! Other supports are money (of course), music, this may sound strange but without music my daily chores at home would be so much more difficult to complete. Another suuport is my boyfriend, without him i woudl not have had the courage nor the idea to go back to school and work for a higher degree in the field I love. My cell phone! this is a huge support for me, without it I would have no way of communicating with my family back home. I would lose my mind if i did not get to talk with my grandma, or my little brother, or parents, or even surrvive 1800 miles across the country....have to have my cell phone!

A challange that I am anxious to face but know how difficult it will be would be planning my wedding. i have not yet heard those 4 little words, but when the day comes there will be a mountain i will need to cross and without my supports I may tumble down the hill. Again my biggest support would be my Grandma. She would be the one to keep me sane and calm through the whole thing, she would also be the monetary support. So I can see a conflict of interest happening there, but she would still support whatever I needed. My friends and their cooperation. I have found that with my other friends' weddings you find out who your true friends are when it comes down to a stressful time. i would need them in my life on a 24/7 basis. I would need support from my boyfriend in household chores and daily activities. I would need the help because yoiu know a man is not going to plan a wedding, it would be one more thing added to my plate. without his support and help both mentally and physically there may be a problem with our future....My boss would be another support I would need. I may need to rearrange my work schedule or take time off and I would need her support in doing this, and hope she woudl understand why I need what I need.
Over all without the main supports i already ahve in my life it would be pretty tough to live life to the fullest.